ok i am trying to create a love spell to make someone love me because they have been a little resistant ( )

anyway i was wondering if anyone has experience with this, and if they would like to share their stories of witchcraft. voldemort followers or gremlins are not welcome.

i also found this spell on desire oil

http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/spells/desire-oil.htm

anyway please help i need guidance!

my mom has a spell book but I haven't really looked into it.. I know there is a love spell but if he is really that resistant then why not look else where?

Sorry, I'm gonna have to get all Mamma-witch on you and let you know that any love spell that's aimed at forcing someone to love you is inevitably going to fuck you over in some way. It's one of the main creeds of modern witchcraft that you cannot perform any spell that's meant to control other people. At best, it just won't work. At worst, the karmic backlash will fuck you over in some way.

The best suggestion I can give you is a love spell that would make you or him more "open" - if he's being resistant and he does like you, then he's probably real insecure and doesn't know how to approach the subject. This way you aren't forcing him to care about you, but you are opening any psychological blocks he may have in place. You could also do a spell to make yourself more psychically receptive for him, so that he can be more open with you.

I have performed these type of spells twice and I didn't have an issue.

because looking elsewhere is boring.

and also, thank you arbitrary world (can i call you something shorter than that, like AW or rebecca) i know about the karma thing, and i'm pretty sure they like me back they're just shy so that is my issue u see!!

i will give your suggestion a try, are there any sites or anything you could suggest i look at for those sorts of spells??

Call me Kate

The best spells are the one you write yourself. Creating/producing a spell is quite easy - the hard part is the mental effort involved.

The most important part of the spell is the mental energy you put into it. There honestly isn't much to this - it's the same mental energy you use when you're intensely focusing on, say, homework, or a really good book. It's all about focus. Actions, words, tools, etc are only there to facilitate your focus.

I'll give you the basic skeletal structure of a spell, and you can fill it in with whatever words/actions you want to do. First things first: meditate for a few minutes. Clear your mind. Count your breathing. I don't remember the exactly number, but when you reach around 8 or so breaths a minute, it opens your consciousness (or so says Bob at the Dancing Moon bookstore). When you feel like your mind is cleared enough, that's when you do whatever you want to do - my best suggestion is to say/write out all your feelings for this guy - how you feel, what you think is going on, what you hope for, what you think is going on with him, your intentions - and perform some symbolic action. You want him to open up: you can do something as simple as opening a book as you say the words. Or if you want to be real kool and ~witchy~, try writing all the possibilities for why he isn't opening up to you (insecurity, shyness, things he's said/done) on a piece of paper, and burn it while you say your words. When you do these symbolic actions, really feel it. Really visualize it in your mind - when you open the book, visualize sitting with him as he finally opens up about his feelings. As you burn the paper, visualize those emotions in him burning away. Focus hard. Put all your focus on these actions/words.

You actually are building energy to be released. Make the end of your symbolic action very strong and forceful - a climax, if you will. After you spill your guts into your paper, shout "FOR THE LOVE OF GOD OPEN UP TO ME" (or whatever the hell you want to say) and light that paper. Dance to your words and at the end fall to the ground. Whatever you want to do - the aim of a spell is to build energy towards a specific intention, and then release it. I like to visualize my goal literally traveling out of my head and going to its destination - when I wanted to get into a certain college, I visualized my spell going to my application, charging it, and having the person who would peruse it look at it and suddenly be like "oh wow, we definitely need to let her in." In this case, you would see your wish traveling to him. Visualize however you want - see him waking up in bed suddenly, eating breakfast and getting all slow while he lifts his spoon, thinking "I've just realized something important." Just visualize this, push that energy as hard as you can, until you're drained. Afterwards, ground yourself. You can meditate like you did at the beginning, lie on the floor, whatever - just give yourself a breather, essentially.

Aaaaand for the most part, that's it The more individual you make it, the more effective it will be. Just saying/doing what a spellbook tells you do won't do the trick - it's about your intention and your focus.

Why on earth would you want to MAKE someone love you? Wouldn't you rather them love you on their own accord?
What satisfaction would you get in knowing that the only reason they're loving you, is because you cast a spell on them?
I see that as an extremely selfish act if you ask me. If you genuinely love this person, you would not want to MAKE them love you back! You would give them perfect free will.

ok thank you kate! that was very helpful, i never really thought about making my own spell but it sort of makes more sense to do that. i'll try it asap and we'll see how it goes n_n

vinechild: because it would be funny

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