Are we even talking about the same thing?
This:
QUOTE(borgy @ Sep 2 2008, 09:10 AM)

Most people are probably just hating on them without hearing the tunes and because of the band member associated with Craig.
is the comment that I'm arguing. It implies that if we don't like the band, it must be so because their bass player is dating Craig and not because we, um, dislike the music or question their choices,
as far-fetched as it may sound. It basically says, as I said before, "you're just jealous", aiming to discredit any negative opinion one might have of THEART. It says that the ONLY reason we're hatin' on the band or dislike the band is because KJ happens to be both a member of the band and Craig's girlfriend. That's like saying: "You only listen to The Vines because you think Craig is cute." While there probably are people that do that, you probably know that it's perfectly possible to enjoy the music without masturbating to a photo of Craig at the same time - or in this case, dislike
The Follow THEART without using a photo of KJ as your dartboard. We may
know of The Follow because of Craig/KJ, but that doesn't mean we
dislike them because of Craig/KJ. I first heard of The Music because Craig used to wear their T-shirt a lot and they toured together and all, do you really think I like their music just because OMG Craig likes them?
EDIT: Naturally, this ends up on the next page.

EDIT THE SECOND: Just to clarify a bit: this isn't about what fangirls do and don't do, this is about lumping all the people that dislike The Follow into the same "I don't care what their music is like, I already know that I hate them because one of them screwed Craig" group.