Awww what's happening?

i feel pissed off because my mom wants to get a cheaper all-in price for my cell phone which means less hours to call =(

Hungry.

Ugh. I have to draw random objects in their basic geometric forms. How dumb. Ugh.

ur not dead! lol



im sure ull b fine anyway...



Aw... sad to hear... try negociate lol


lol good luck maria, shouldnt b that bad

edit: oh right, im just a bit cold.... as usual... still its july the 12th and i havent been feelin hot yet... Wheres the summer??

The pc is goin so bad that i cant even edit my posts now

^

whats wrong???

I feel a bit depressed. I keep thinking about how I'm going to miss all my friends when I leave here.

I woke up sick ....

HeY

mmm... but when you find a computer come here sometimes...


JulesCraigJules

Of course. I'll have my laptop with me.

HeY

haha benja

how are u??

Whoo, I just had another fight with my mum.
Nothing says 'I love my daughter' better than a slap.

She slapped you?
Aww, Ursa.

I'm sorry, Ursa. That sucks. One good thing about being my age...don't have to worry about that shit anymore! Hope it gets better.

Hungry.

hey, don't say that yet, carla

Granny can still raise her hand


hey, don't say that yet, carla

Granny can still raise her hand

One of my old schoolmates calls me every day for several times on my mobile phone and also at home after school is over now since a month or so..but as she never really seemed to be a friend to me I do ignore all those calls of her by turning off aswell all my phones.. :S
I feel bad a bit, but I just don't dare to tell her the truth that I actually never liked her and that she's annoying me :S
but oh well

Yeah, but she knows who's gonna pick her nursing home....

oh, right, you got her there

I feel a little sick



but

and

aww my parents never slapped me... I wish everyone could say that...

I like ur new sig and av btw

Once my mom slapped me so hard that my nose started bleeding.

oh my... Now that i can think of it, she really never slapped me... but only once with her hoover... and my lips bleeded lol i was like "thanks god twasnt my teeth "

and look, all i remember from this is my lips bleeding, and the hoover, so it didnt make me any better! Slapping kids doesnt deserve to anything!

My mom throws shoes at me back when she used to get mad she hit me.....
now she just yells..... not any better but I guess its better than hittings..

my mum spend her day shoutting, im so happy not to be home now! But when she gets really annoying or angry, my brothers kick her out of the house lol

Haha!! Me too!! I feel because I have a headache, but I feel because I'm happy!

Wow, I guess most kids have a tough time with their moms. My mom has AS too, and she's always been more like my sister - we've always been on the same level. My grandmother (dad's mom) took care of me, and I'm still scared of her to this day. She was sooo mean to me when I was little, but now that I've been diagnosed she's been really sweet to me. I realize now that Mom and I drove her crazy, too and it wasn't anyone's fault. So Gran and I are finally getting along. I'm glad it happened while we still have time to actually get to know each other.

So hang in there with your families. They will drive you crazy sometimes, but there's always something to be learned from those conflicts (even if they do suck terribly).

I need your advice..anyone willing to oblige

My situation:
There is this guy in my life, we met and he has treated me and my brother ( did i mention my brother)
really nice.. He is funny and nice just a good person. He doesnt look like it but his personality is amazing
he is the nicest person i have ever dated.
but my mother is like being her judgemental self, and saying he is a loser a bad person .. and all this crap
and basically talking ill of this person when all of the other guys i have dated treated me not that well
I dont get it i just want to cry and yell
Did I mention this guy wants to get to know my mom before we become an item.so that way he has her approval so he can date me but my mom goes on about how she thinks he is trouble .. I dont know I am just mad!
What should I do?

i think he should met her and then your mom will se he's a nice person


i'm

i'm a liitle bit angry, cause my boss yelled at me this morning, cause she made a mistake and said twas my fault!

Then i'm but tired, and my back is killing me, and so does my arm cause Cécile hurt me with her elbow

I used to be quite close with my mum, told her everything and that. We were kinda like best friends. But then I started going out, she hated it for whatever reason and since then she's trying to fight about the slightest things so she can ground me for a while.
I just grew to hate her a little. I know it's a terrible thing to say, but y'know. Things got pretty bad a couple of months ago but then we kinda patched things up. Now I just try to avoid her or not to talk to her too much. We don't fight that much anymore, but I kinda feel I don't have real parents.
Or maybe that's just the emo inside me, lol.


Oh, my mum's like that too. Wanna know how many people I liked or even been friends with she ever liked? Zero. 0. She hates them all, snoops around, asks ambarrassing questions about them around the town and when she finds something dirty she keeps throwing it back at me. "oh, his sister had a baby at 17, you want to end up like her?" "his grandfather was with the communists, stay away from him"
I would tell her to get a grip of reality and stop being a friggin pain in the arse, but that wouldn't help much in your situation.

I dunno, try to talk to her, tell her how much that means to you, something like that. I almost forgot how that goes.

Anyway, I'm a bit depressed.
Here's another thing I'll miss out.


Silverchair, so close, set so far away ... And The Manics! Shout Out Louds!!! The Sounds ...
But I can't afford to spend 200+ euros, I'm saving up, plus I couldn't camp either.
Darn.

Right now, I feel like avoiding certain people. I don't know why, but maybe because I'm not in the mood for human contact todya. My mom said soemthing that hurt me this mornings, and I guess I'm just depressed about it. So depressed in fact that I feel like I'm worthless (I've been told that by a lto of kids growing up, but to hear it from your own parents growing up just hurts on so many levels), and then I get depressed for the rest of the day (sometimes, this depression lasts for weeks). I'm starting to believe that maybe I am worthless.

thanks Ursa


Yeh I try to tell her she's a bit of the close minded type
but maybe she'll see

I am sorry you cant go to your concert

Wow, I think I will play therapist for the evening! Here goes:

Evie: You are certainly not worthless. In my opinion, "worthless" means someone who's two-faced, who lies to people, who's fake, who's a user, etc. You don't seem like that type of person to me. In fact, no one on this board does! I don't have kids, and my own parents never said such things to me, so I can't say I know how that feels. All I can say is that I'm sure there are lots of people who think you're worth a whole lot. Make it a point to spend more time around those people, and avoid the others...even if they are family. Sometimes that's necessary.

Ursa: Maybe your mom freaked when you started going out because all of a sudden other people were becoming more of a priority to you than your relationship with her. My mom and I have always been best friends, and since we both have AS, we have that extra Vulcan tie. But seriously, when I started going out with friends and dating, she became very distant and jealous. For her, it wasn't just that she had to begin worrying about me more, it was the fact that she was so socially isolated herself that she'd always relied on me to be her confidant, shopping partner, shrink, etc. So when I started pulling away she got really nasty for awhile. It sucked, but it eventually leveled off. Your mom probably will adjust alot sooner, since she's probably got much more of a life than my mom had at the time. I hate to say it, but I guess the best thing is to just keep doing what you've been doing - keeping a little distance and trying to get used to the shift in your relationship with her. I actually think it's a healthy process for both of you, but I'm sure it's not a very comfortable one right now. The only other thing that might be tough in dealing with your mom is that you live in a small town, and I think that always tends to make mothers more paranoid, especially about their daughters. "What will the neighbors think?" Guess I got lucky on that one, cos my mom hated the neighbors! I guess just try to remember that she's doing the best she can. That's kind of crap advice, and I wish I knew more to tell you. But I think you're handling it really well already.

Chelsea: You said this guy "doesn't look like it, but his personality is amazing." What does he look like? Is your mom judging him based on something about his looks or vibe or something? And what about him sounds like trouble to her? It's hard for me to judge what other people see as "trouble." Sometimes other people are right about things like that, but sometimes I'm the one who's right. I've learned not to go off appearances as much as vibes from people. Sometimes parents are right about guys, but she should be able to give you a concrete reason and examples of what's bothering her about him. I always demanded full explanations from my parents, but then I'm an ass that way! Seriously, see if you can get her to tell you what's really bothering her about him, and then see if you can relate to her side of it. She may be right, but she should know that badmouthing him to you without concrete proof is only going to make you want to defend him, and you'll end up liking him more!

Ok, I'm done!!

i guess it's one of the best festival!! where is that? i wanna go too ^^

Thanks for the advice,intotheworld.

yea yea saw that poster in vienna. its cool!
but they were also giving us some handouts of some festival, which was also cooler and in vienna. i think...but i threw it away, cuz i dont have any money left for festivals

Thanks...
Its more of the way he looks ...
But he is a good person we are an item I am still playing it safe =]
i cant judge someone by the way they look he is a good person
i dont know

You're welcome, ladies. Good luck with everything. And please call me Carla.
Chelsy, sorry I spelled your name wrong up there!


Awww...I wish I could see this one, too! I miss Austria so much, just seeing this made me sad!

ZOMFG What the hell is that super festival? Where does it take place?

Let's go together then There's Kaiser Chiiiiefs!

*hopes smiles are contagious*

If you want to smile use this one -->
I've always thought that this one --> wasn't nice AT ALL. It's like hey i just smile to make you happy. Not because i feel like smiling I'm sorry but that's the way i feel.

dont worry about it Carla ... ( its a common thing )
but yeh its Spelt Chesly




I feel

i feel

My mom and i had an argument yesterday, i haven't spoken to her all day long and this afternoon she came to me and said 'Can't you move? Can't you go outside instead of staying in front of this fucking TV, you lazy ass'.

;____;

She told me yesterday she was forbiding me to go out. I can't even go party tonight because of her and she's screaming on me because i stayed at home? What the fuck, seriously?

I'm dying! ;______;

aw

it'll be okay, cecile, she''s a woman, and all women sometimes don't make any sense

A little cold. It's colder than it looks outside today.

^ hope you're covered up during that production, don't wanna have ur chest pointing


What I think would really help is if you have your brother put in a good word about your boy to your mom. But that has to look like he did it on his own, like he likes him, too. Maybe then your mom will reconsider.

But an important thing is for your mom to actually meet and talk to him, because that can really open a parent's mind, and perhaps re-consider.

It doesn't matter what you say in your boy's defense if it's just you and your mother talking, your mom's opinion won't change. It also doesn't really help you that you have a track record of boys who haven't treated you well, because she's obviously throwing that in your face, in an attempt to discredit you in knowing a good boy when you see one. My parents do that to me when I meet a girl, too.

The best you can do is ask for another chance, and ask your mom to at least meet and talk to him before she shuts her doors completely. If she really loves you, she would allow you to be happy.

I think the best shot you have is that you should tell her that detail about your boy wanting to get her approval before you become an item. That'll make her think her opinion and her input is valued in your life, and maybe she'll give you a shot.