whats wrong with saying how you made me feel? I thought you were all for this speaking your mind stuff.
Katie asked why I was acting quite defensive and I answered. The way you were talking to me seemed like you were trying to make me look a bit idiotic. Going back and rereading the posts doesn't change the way I feel. You continue to call me momma mod. You are being a jerk towards me just because I don't agree with your viewpoints on how I run this place. Maybe if you had been posting here for a while and mentioned those things I would be a bit more open to your opinions but you just got here today and bombarded me with your opinions which in the way they were worded caused me to feel personally insulted.

mo...you are an idiot. Your attempts at coming off as having the slightest pinch of intelligence really does amaze me.

resorting to personal jabs, a subtle admit to defeat, and a very illusioned attempt at walking away gracefully...

correction dear, you hav done nothing but come back with attacks, all I am doing is defending my self in the same manner. Why cant you take a little taste of your own medicine??? Don't feel personally insulted you shouldn't care what I say. I think you are a little power hungry, lets see how that offends.

your sarcasem is noted, but it doesn't make it clever, mo.

ooh gosh you just never learn do you? Asking for trouble again, im suprised you haven't been banned for being a nusance...essh i shouldn't have said that huh??? I mean i may be admiting defeat.

in the eye of the beholder, dear.......it's all about perception, and not forcing your own onto others....

I think your going a bit far. You've only been here a day, maybe you should step back and take a look at this from another point of view. Don't be so quick to judge.

you already have.....but if you wanna be redundant, be my guest....

when did I admit defeat?? Funny thing, i thought that contained admitting something...hence the word admit, which means what mo???

But, aren't you contradicting the whole point of the thread by attacking one person?

when did you admit it? when you ran out of arguments and tried to walk away, calling me, and I quote, "an idiot," and then just went off, trying to insult me in a longer sentence, you know, throwing in some fancy wording....

"admit" means to acknowledge or to recognize an event or something of minor or major importance.....in your case, defeat

1) don't call me dear.
2) its not being power hungry that is causing me to become defensive its the fact that I put alot of time and try my best to keep this forum an enjoyable place and you came from nowhere critisizing the way I moderate without even experiencing the forum for more than a day. If I was power hungry I wouldn't be trying to get the administrators to appoint another mod to help me out.
3) most of our debate has been you critisizing something and me defending my decisions
4) Don't tell me what I should and should not care about

that wasn't an admitance, I never once said. "mo i lose here is one last throw of words" I simply stopped arguing with you, because it was going no where. Not because I felt defeated, believe me I can continue on and on.

now you know how I felt before this started, when I "held a civil tongue."

But you had to be a poopy-pants about it....

aesthetic, I dont see why you are allowed to judge me and I'm still not allowed to judge you. it must be a mod thing I suppose.

there's that "going into specifics retroactively" again......trying to distance yourself from any accusation or being put into a category....

You admitted defeat, how hard is that? just face it.....

shut up mo, that's all you have been doing this whole time.

aw, are we all outta gas?

You continue to post the same things over and over again. At least you have the deceny to re-word them. But please if we are going to continue arguing make it about something else. You really are beginning to bore me, I'm just waiting until you become clever and say something at actually makes my jaw drop. but you continue to fail

Oh, now we're all "you can't hurt me, I'm a tough guy, I'm rubber and you're glue "

Why?

So you can ignore your true feelings?

Let me in.

YOU are beginning to bore me now.....no jaw dropping here....

it's obvious you get off on being argumentative....we get the point.

move on
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why should I move on when everyone else doesn't seem to? I try but than mo comes back at me with some stupid remark. I think this would all end if everyone else dropped it, because I am always going to say something back, it's not a desire to be argumentive, it's me defending myself.

because its the adult thing to do.....

agree to disagree and leave it at that. why get your panties in a wad over it?

i just don't see the point.

out
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If you drop it first, then I'd look worse for still being on it.....

Don't acknowledge me, and it'll soon be over....

See how it works?

what?
I think you're judging the way I run things a bit too quickly. Thats all I've been saying. How have I judged you? I havn't come out and said some concrete "fact" about you after knowing you for a couple hours. All I said is I thought you were acting a bit superior, which is how you were making me feel. I don't know anything about you how could I judge you?

Backdrifter, you can't spend one day in one thread and expect to understand the problems that Lizzy (aesthetic dame) has to put up with, and the issues she's trying to address.

The little bits of fighting in this thread are nothing, agreed. But when a group of older teens takes it into their head to harrass a 12-year old and drive her away that's unacceptable.

And I disagree with people who justify saying anything with "well it's just the internet". People feel things about statements made against them whether they happen in "real life" or not. If someone says they hate you, and start a group with the sole purpose of trying to get other people to hate you and abuse you verbally I think it's time for someone to step in, which Lizzy has done.

And it's easy once you're a little older to understand that words don't hurt but when I was 12 certain words did hurt - it's hard enough at that age without having people belittle you constantly like that.

So in conclusion, leave Lizzy alone. She's done a great job of moderating this and trying to keep the situation under control.

all I'm saying is you guys are a little too sensitive, learn how to live with truth, and if its not the truth dont worry about it.

and what I've been trying to say is stop telling people how they should feel and react to things and you won't get caught up in these silly rows

well........I'm done.

I didnt' tell anyone how they felt, i know that you are all being overly sensitive its cleary evident. Now dont tell me what to do.

I'm well done
the roast is still rare
I gotta check it in another half hour

::yawn::

yes, please, no more "what I was and wasn't doing before"

it's over.....

That was perfect. I concur.

-should start the "slow clap progressing into applaud" but resists-

There's no "situation" at hand. I had no intention of dragging this arguement along until rawkxinfinity posted.

yeah, you know who I am.
Bitches.

When I browse through this thread, I get the idea that some people have really started disliking each other just because there are some disagreements. I think that's almost as infantile as constantly picking on a 12 year old, to be honest.

What? I wasn't talking to you. If you actually read what I posted you'll note that it was addressed to someone else. I also didn't address the argument in this thread other than to say that it wasn't much.

Your score for reading comprehension skills: -85%

Does it matter who you're talking to? You often attack people who aren't talking to you. It doesn't matter when you do it, though. huh? And no matter how clever you think your little remark was, it wasn't.

You're a very strange person aren't you? By "I wasn't talking to you" I meant that my remark was not in any way directed at you or any previous discussions with you. That entire post was regarding a specific issue with backdrifter, and had no bearing on any discussions we may have previously had.

In other words, I had considered any discussion between you and I to be over done with, and I had moved on to a different discussion that had nothing to do with you. So when you took offence to it, I pointed out that I was not talking to you. Is that clear enough?

You don't understand that I was telling you there's no "situation" and it doesn't matter who you were talking to for me to make that clear.