Is anyone else part of this mailing list?

I'm just wondering...

http://www.bothsidesnow.co.uk/index.htm

what is it?

"bothsidesnow: since, erm, as long ago as february 1999, the bsn mailing list has been the premier way for bisexual and bi-friendly people who adore indie, alt-rock, goth, punk and various related types of music (and movies, and food) to get together and swap emails. Original, and, we still like to feel, the best."

sweet. sounds neat!

that sounds cool

its pretty neat

what if you're not bi but you like the music?

"you don't have to be bi to join - we've gay and straight men, women and any other stripe of sexual preference box ticking - but obviously if get upset by the idea of letting your compass spin, you'd be best off moving on to the next list. But if you like the idea of an inbox buzzing and bubbling, then join us. You can always unsubscribe if you don't like it. But, really: boys, girls, sweet, scary, sexy music. What's not to love?"

sounds interesting. yar ill join.

I was just wondering, are you bi?

I dont know
I've never had any kind of sexual experience whatsoever so I couldn't really answer that

I do find many women extremely attractive though...

the school nurse at school told us that when we are teenagers we might find the same sex attractive for a while but it might be just a phase and if we have any questions just go and ask her...

i have a friend that's bi, but shes 15, so how would she know for real?

she probably isn't really sure even if she thinks she is
throughout highschool I didn't really find women that attractive or I just decided not to pay any attention to them lol
but now I do

but you still think that Carl Barat is sexy, dont you? dont you???

yes of course

I've thought about being bi someties but I haven't made up my mind...to young and confused

think your mind just makes up itself for you when it comes to sexuality
but many beg to differ, we don't have to get into that debate

i never seriously thought about the fact that i might have been bi until a close girl friend of mine started fooling around with another girl. she called me to tell me and after i hung up i just collapsed on the floor crying. infront of my boyfriend. and then i had to tell him that i thought i might have feelings for sara and that i find women attractive and he started getting scared because im going to a former all girl school in the fall for college. but i told him i said

'Listen! I love you. If i didnt love you more that i loved anyone else that I've met I wouldn't be with you. I would be with them. i love you too much to leave you."

so everythign turned out dandy. and i no longer have uncomfy feelings for my buddy.

yay!

only

everytime i read the title for this thread I think it says both side snow. as in snow that white stuff.

i know.. i thought the same thing

get out of my head you fruity fruit!!

I'm glad it turned out dandy
I just started thinking about my sexuality when a good friend of mine started flirting with me (like enough that I could tell, I usually can't tell if people flirt with me) and another friend of mine started complaining that the girl was always flirting with her too and how it was so weird

and I realized I never felt weird whenever it happened, just flattered and slightly uh...aroused

so yeah

My bi friend used to grab my arm all the time in a weird kinda way. or she'd just grab my hand and hold it.

it could get kinda uncomfortable sometimes...

me and my girlfriends used to feel each other up alot and mouth "I love you" across the room to each other when we hung out

there was a rumor going around my school for a while that I was a lesbian lol

oh my. you wouldnt last two minutes with sara.

we were holding hands for some reason in a drug store and the clerk (a guy) kind of gave us that (whoa) look. so she starts chasing me around pinching my arse and such and when i go up to pay she starts sucking on my neck like a freaking LEACH!

so yeah. i think the guy creamed his jeans.

and then in stewarts she put her foot in my lady place. lol.

it tickled.

hahahahaha yeah thats the kind of stuff me and my friends used to do
to get crazy looks from guys and just for fun

I miss those days

I think some boys should share homosexual experiences..

yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

I'm glad we're on the same page here

haha oh gosh..

how old were you then?

my experience happened in december.